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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update Shirt off.. Shoes off.. Sitting in the in the breezy sunshine in the garden at my family’s house.. No plan, but lots of ways to go.. Mostly at peace, for once.. View

    Hope you are doing OK @emgr, I’m always here if you ever need to talk Em :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update Happy Easter everybody :) View

    Hope you have a good Easter too @emgr :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update So, the potential side-effects of my new pills apparently may include sleep disorders, anxiety, depression, .. I guess I wouldn’t know if I were suffering from any of those side-effects, but […] View

    Hopefully the medication will help you the more you use it @emgr, I would try to talk to your doctor about any side-effects, just to be safe, do look after yourself Em, you will be OK, I’m always here if you need to chat :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update So, I just got my new (where ”new” means ”six year old hand-me-down” ;) ) iPad working so hopefully I’ll be able to be here (and elsewhere) more often :) View

    Glad to see you back on Blah @emgr, hope you are doing awesomely Em, I’m always here if you need me :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update So, does flagging trolls make any difference at all? View

    Don’t let trolls make you upset or angry @emgr, this site is supposed to be for helping and supporting others, trolls really shouldn’t be on here.

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update So, maybe trying to take a second year university module this half-term wasn’t my best decision ever – I feel so dumb :P View

    I’m sure you will be OK @emgr, remember to do what you feel is right for you and your future, you will make good choices and decisions that will benefit you going forward, I wish you all the best Em, I’m always here if you need to chat about absolutely anything :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update So, I was on a training run about twenty minutes ago, when I was almost hit by a fucking car whose fucking driver couldn’t wait a few fucking seconds for me to cross a zebra crossing (I had […] View

    Don’t let bad drivers ruin your day @emgr, hope you are OK and that you were not hurt Em, people really should try to be careful when they are on the road, do look after yourself and take care, I’m always here if you need me Em :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update So, I went to the pharmacy today to learn that the pills I’m taking to try to keep my hormones and moods in check have been discontinued — f#ck! ..is what I’m going to want to be doing when my […] View

    I would try talking to your doctor and see if you can work something out @emgr, I’m sure you will be OK Em, try to stay positive and keep going, I’m always here if you need to chat :) (hugs)

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update My first day free from school for Christmas break – of course, I spent it doing homework :P View

    Homework really sucks. But hey think positive: you’re already on christmas break! :) @emgr

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update My first day free from school for Christmas break – of course, I spent it doing homework :P View

    Hope you manage to get everything done @emgr, do have a wonderful break and keep being awesome Em, I’m always here if you need to chat :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update I hate being a virgin but know I’m not good enough for anybody to like (and I especially hate how these thoughts are now intruding when I’m trying to do school work) View

    Please don’t feel ashamed @emgr, you will find your knight in shining armour Em, everyone deserves true love with the partner of their dreams, you do too, you will find that special someone who will give you all the support and happiness in the world, it will happen Em, stay positive and don’t give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you need…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update Hormones :/ View

    Nothing wrong with expressing yourself @emgr.

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update So, I finally went on that maybe-maybe not date with the classmate who asked me out in the summer(!) who’d I’d had a bit of a crush on for years and.. I think that crush is over :/ It’s.. odd. […] View

    Try to build up a bond and connection with them @emgr, see how things go with each other before deciding if being with them is what you truly want, you could try to talk to them about what you want out of a possible relationship Em, I’m sure things will go your way no matter what, I’m always here if you ever need to chat :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update Sometimes I wonder why I’m friends with some of my friends, they just don’t seem to realise that what they’re saying just isn’t acceptable.. View

    Don’t let bad and mean people get you down @emgr, you deserve friends who will be supportive and show you all the love in the world Em, surround yourself with good people Em, I agree with @marikofujimoto, do what makes you happy and comfortable, I may not know you personally Em but I care about you and want the best for you, you will meet kind…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update Sometimes I wonder why I’m friends with some of my friends, they just don’t seem to realise that what they’re saying just isn’t acceptable.. View

    @emgr right now I have no friends too. Does it hurt? yeah. but it’s better not having friends than having friends that hurt us and puts us down constantly. Those aren’t friends. For you to be happy you need YOU and no one else ok? I’m telling you this from the heart, as someone who is in the exact same situation as you are.
    Fuck those fake…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update Attending a funeral tomorrow. *Hugs* for everybody who deserves *hugs*, and especially for those who ”think” they don’t deserve *hugs*. View

    I’m so sorry for your loss @emgr, be strong Em, you will make it through this, do your best to remember all the good times you had with the person that passed away, I’m always here if you need to talk (hugs)

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    BlahTherapy Moderation posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update So, I’ve made myself so anxious about my sexuality (my most likely being bisexual and NOT wanting my family to know) and about my hang-ups about being sexual with somebody that I’m now waking […] View

    @emgr

    You never need to apologize for nor hide who you are. Your sexuality does not detract from your worth as a human being, and those people who truly support you will continue to do so without regard to your sexual orientation.

    As the adage goes: ”The ones who matter don’t mind, and the ones who mind don’t matter.”

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update So, I’ve made myself so anxious about my sexuality (my most likely being bisexual and NOT wanting my family to know) and about my hang-ups about being sexual with somebody that I’m now waking […] View

    Be proud and embrace who you truly are @emgr, I’m sure you will find that special someone who will give you all the support and happiness in the world, you deserve true love Em, everyone does, try to stay positive and keep smiling, you can do it, I’m always here if you ever need to chat, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update So, I’m back :) I thought I had my hormones a bit better controlled, but today I’ve been left feeling horny and broody.. by an advent calendar?! o_O View

    Good to see you back on Blah @emgr, do look after yourself Em, I’m always here if you need to chat about anything :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Em posted an update I think I’m going to try to stop visiting here for some time – I’m not sure how long. I think I just end up talking to people about my problems when I should be trying to solve my problems. So, […] View

    Hope things work out @emgr, do come back to Blah when you feel totally ready too Em, this community will always be here to support you :) (hugs)

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