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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: AKGibson posted an update What do you do when both options are going to make you miserable? View

    Focus on finding a positive and happy option that will make you feel fantastic @akgibson, don’t let the negative things bring you down, remember to be as upbeat as you can and surround yourself with hope, empathy and compassion, everything will be OK and things will work out amazingly for you, keep going forward with optimism and never give up,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: AKGibson posted an update Day after my birthday and all hell breaks loose. Because of someone who can’t do their job correctly (or as I was later told, apparently was not given the correct tools to do their job […] View

    Please don’t feel annoyed, angry or frustrated @akgibson, I would speak to your manager at work and those you work with so things can get sorted, I would mentor those who are struggling and help them find the best way to work so mistakes can be avoided, I’m sure you will find a way to easily fix things, stay positive and keep going, you can do…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: AKGibson posted an update I have had a great birthday today. Honestly, I have. Though…I won’t lie, it’s a weird moment when the first message you saw for your birthday was a distant friend, the second was an old […] View

    Glad to see that you had a wonderful birthday @akgibson, hope you had lots of fun on your birthday, I’m sure you will get more nice birthday messages from your parents, other friends and family, remember you are a fantastic person who deserves to be loved, appreciated and valued, keep smiling and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: AKGibson posted an update Sometimes you just need a good cry. Sometimes you need everything to be put away so that you don’t do anything. Sometimes you just need someone to talk to. I’m thankful for those I have […] View

    Do find a way to get your thoughts and feelings out @akgibson, express yourself openly and honestly, you are a good person who deserves to live in a place where you are listened to, acknowledged, appreciated and loved, I don’t want to see you upset or sad, you will find people who will always be there for you no matter what, remember the BT…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: AKGibson posted an update It’s nights like this that I struggle the most. When you a room goes silent when you walk in, you try to start conversation acting like nothing is happening…but you aren’t engaged in at […] View

    Anyone who ignores you or makes you feel unwelcome isn’t worth it @akgibson, you are a wonderful person who deserves to be surrounded by compassion, positivity and happiness, do express yourself openly and honestly, I want to see you being treated with love, respect and dignity, everything will be OK, stay upbeat and know so many people care about…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: AKGibson posted an update Of course I don’t listen to you. You never listen to me and when you want me to listen it’s about things you don’t know about. You’ve never dealt with and don’t know anything about. Stop […] View

    Try to talk to each other so you can be open about how you feel with this person @akgibson, they have no right to treat you badly though, let them know that you just want things to be peaceful, positive and respectful, hope things work out for the better, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: AKGibson posted an update It’s too late for this… View

    Please don’t feel alone @akgibson, you are an incredible person who deserves all the joy, happiness and hope in the world, don’t bottle up your thoughts and feelings, find good ways to get them out, I want to see you truly smiling and living each day to the fullest, hold your head up high and always be amazing, go forward with confidence and never…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: AKGibson posted an update What to do when you finally realize that your elephant never really showed up, but everyone else’s did? Yet, you realize you move around to often to find other people that didn’t receive […] View

    Please don’t feel lonely or alone @akgibson, you are a wonderful, incredible and fantastic person who deserves to be surrounded by happiness, focus on getting yourself to a good place emotionally and mentally, you are worth it, you do matter and you have a purpose, smile, hold your head up high and keep going forward with confidence, you can do…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Any Non-Drinkers Out There That Get It? in the group Group logoVent It! 7 years, 4 months ago

    @akgibson If you are worried about ending up out of touch with your drinking friends, after turning down their invite, think about some activity you can do together, without alcohol, and invite them to that, […]

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    mariko replied to the forum topic Any Non-Drinkers Out There That Get It? in the group Group logoVent It! 7 years, 4 months ago

    @akgibson First of all I want to tell you that you do NOT have to drink to socialise. Girl you have the wrong friends if they tell you that or make you feel that way.. I have friends and sometimes when we’re out […]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: AKGibson posted an update How on earth do you submit a question on this site anymore? View

    @akgibson You can open a thread to discuss things in any group. @petitchouchou In the chat or in the groups, or post a status.

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    Modest Butter posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: AKGibson posted an update How on earth do you submit a question on this site anymore? View

    @akgibson It got removed after it was flooded by spammers, idk when it’ll be back, maybe when they find a way to ban the spammers

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: AKGibson posted an update That moment when you have to explain to basically strangers about something personal even some of your actual friends don’t know about you and you want to say no but you know if you say […] View

    Don’t let anyone be mean to you @akgibson, I would open up to others when you feel totally ready and comfortable too, everyone deserves their own space and privacy to work things out, try to be positive and keep smiling, you can do it, I want the best for you, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay…[Read more]