Emily said 9 years, 10 months ago:

She is being very narrow-minded, and she is wrong. There is no reason you should feel greedy or guilty just because you’re attracted to both sexes. She is not your true friend as long as she makes you feel bad for being who you are. I hope you can become confident and proud of who you are despite what people like her have to say about it!!

Swifting said 9 years, 10 months ago:

Brain development doesn’t end until you’re 24 or so. It wouldn’t shock me if your sexuality was still in stages of changing.

I’m Bisexual. I’m not greedy. I’m not selfish. I’m not attracted to EVERYONE. But, I’m not going to rule someone out because they do or do not have a penis.

This is a great video on Bisexuality and the myths and the truths… I’m always open to talk if you’d like to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j63sq5qTIok

I also would like to state that it’s ludicrous to try to change who you are and who you’re attracted to because of what other people will think – it’s your relationship. At the end of the day it has to be with the person you want to be climbing into bed with.

Abz said 9 years, 10 months ago:

thank you for all your support <3 it means the world and rheloric thanks for the laugh i needed it X

Hayden said 9 years, 10 months ago:

Bisexuality is not synonymous with being greedy. People who are bisexual are not greedy FOR being bisexual.
What your friend said was from ignorance and is how a lot of people unfortunately feel about bisexuality, but that doesn’t mean it’s true. It’s perfectly fine to be bisexual — It’s perfectly fine to be YOU.
Whether you’re 100% positive of your sexuality or not, only YOU can determine that. Not anybody else, because you know yourself best.
So whatever your sexuality may be, don’t ever let other people’s opinions on it force you into considering that their negativity is what’s true.
Find the people who love and accept you for who you are and it will all become much clearer. I wish you the best.

OpenTalk said 9 years, 10 months ago:

Most modern gender studies suggest that human sexuality exists on a spectrum of bisexuality; some humans prefer men a little more than women, others women more than men, and a few sit evenly between the two.

All that is important is that you understand that you are free to be with whomever makes you happy, providing they treat you with the respect and emotional care you deserve.

Keep loving who you love.

TheFastLane said 9 years, 6 months ago:

You are not greedy. You may just be bisexual, and that’s perfectly normal. Many people (like your friend) don’t believe in bisexuality, so that’s why they say things like “You’re just confused” or “Pick a side, gay or straight!” But your sexuality exists, you’re not greedy, so don’t listen to your friend! You’re awesome!

Princen said 9 years, 5 months ago:

Being bisexual doesn’t make you greedy and you certainly don’t need to “pick a side”. That’s just biphobic bullshit that people like to spew. All being bisexual is is being attracted to people of the same and different genders. This doesn’t make anyone inherently greedy or slutty or whatever else people like to say. There are tons of wonderful monogamous bisexuals and there are lots of bisexuals who do like to have lots of sex with different people. BUT THIS ISN’T BECAUSE THEY’RE BISEXUAL! Your sexual practices aren’t relative to your sexuality, all your sexuality affects is WHO you have these sexual practices with. Don’t listen to people who make you feel bad just because you’re bi or are questioning your sexuality.