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Hi there! This is a group for Polyamorous people to get together and share concerns and advice with each other. Being Poly is something that takes work and the best source of advice is from others within the dynamic.
I was thinking about it the next time he comes down but at the same time I don’t want to come off as just being overly possessive/jealous .. because I’m not. I’m just concerned that she’s trying to kick me out of the relationship.. I’m just not really sure how to approach the topic with the boyfriend.
I am so sorry about the situation, and I honestly hope that you were able to find a solution in the past nine months. In general, I would say that you should be honest and express your feelings to your partner. Explain your side of things, and say why you feel the way you do. That way, everything will be on the table, and communication can start.
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I was thinking about it the next time he comes down but at the same time I don’t want to come off as just being overly possessive/jealous .. because I’m not. I’m just concerned that she’s trying to kick me out of the relationship.. I’m just not really sure how to approach the topic with the boyfriend.
I am so sorry about the situation, and I honestly hope that you were able to find a solution in the past nine months. In general, I would say that you should be honest and express your feelings to your partner. Explain your side of things, and say why you feel the way you do. That way, everything will be on the table, and communication can start.