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    Fading Echo posted an update 4 years, 11 months ago

    Since I last was on, here is the stuff that has impacted my life:

    1. My ex and I got back together last week
    2. I gave him a hall pass (because I move really slow in relationships) on the condition that he tell me when he used it and then he didn’t do that. Then I find out hes been exchanging nudes with this girl and wants to hook up with another. So yes I gave him the hall pass but on one condition that he didn’t follow. And I told him I would be fine with it if I knew who they were, but he wouldn’t tell me. But then he told me he was going to keep doing it and I knew I couldn’t stop him, so I got three hours of sleep and then this morning I told him to pick me or them. He picked them.
    3. My ex left me again.
    4. My heart broke for the fourth time (all four being his doing).
    5. I’ve finally come to terms with the fact that I was raped in ninth grade.
    6. My ex wants to be friends.
    7. I said yes. All of you guys are my friends and I am reaching out to the entire BT community here when i say this: DO NOT LET ME GET BACK WITH HIM. EVER.

    Thank you all so much for being here for me. It means so much to me.

    Mood : Depressed
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      Oli replied 4 years, 11 months ago

      Don’t let him have any power over you @985921sqh, honestly he is a jerk Echo and you are such a beautiful angel who deserves so much better, I would cut him out of your life and move forward focusing on your happiness and wellbeing sweetie, what happened to you in the ninth grade was so wrong Echo, no one ever deserves to be raped or sexually assaulted, be strong Echo and please report what happened to you sweetie, you are such a brave, courageous and wonderful soul who truly will shine in life and make great things happen, please know the BT community will always be here to support you and so will I Echo, you will overcome Echo because you are incredible hun, always believe in yourself and never give up, you can do it Echo, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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      Fading Echo replied 4 years, 11 months ago

      @oliver, tbh its over and i just want to be done with it so i dont plan to report it.

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      J replied 4 years, 11 months ago

      He doesnt respect you. Its best to cut all ties with him no matter how much it hurts

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      $teve replied 4 years, 11 months ago

      We’ve already discussed this earlier, so there’s not much to say. TJ is a cool guy, he just needs to learn how to live his life correctly. We’ll try our best to talk you out of dating him again, you don’t deserve the relationship he has given you, no one does in general honestly. I’m still very sorry for what happened to ya in the 9th grade, no person should ever go through the same, disgusting, disturbing event that you went through. We’re here for ya lad, don’t think your suffering alone, all of us are suffering together. We’ll always have your back and support you along the way.
      You’ll never walk alone