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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 6 years, 4 months ago

    Why does gender have to be such a complex concept?
    A few years ago I came out as genderfluid with heavy male feelings, which being fluid has been a blast for me so far….if I could pass as a male.
    But recently it’s been causing quite the concern for me. I’ve been wanting to isolate myself because I hate the body I’m in. I’m not sure if I want to be male…female…both…or nothing. It’s the biggest struggle I’ve been facing lately.

    • Be proud of who you are and who you want to become @xxbaybayxx, look in the mirror Oliver and smile at the fabulous person you see staring back at you, truly love, embrace and cherish every part of yourself Oliver, you can do it, smile and keep going forward, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @xxbaybayxx I found that most people in your situation aren’t happy overall. Specially with themselves. Maybe you are uncertain about your gender but you need to start looking beyond that. Maybe there are issues you need to work on first before considering gender. DOn’t make rushed decisions, think about it very well and firstly try to fix all your problems before you can properly think about gender issues.
      I wish you the best of luck for the situation , much love!