I realized that no one ever UP VOTES my answers that I spend 20 mins to an hours each...I think we forget because I forget all the time. So here's a reminder. If you like this answer, please upvote it...or for the love of God DOWNVOTE it if you think it's pure trash, unhelpful or even dangerous. I decided what types of Q's to answer, based on what Q/A's have been popular in the past. That being said, thanks for reading!
It's real...what are we living in the fucking dark ages? In your mind, your sexuality is on a spectrum, you can also have a duality where you are super conservative Christian senator.....but all that sexual repression and unaddressed sexual issues that just laid dormant and festered for a decade....and before you know it, this guy is fucking guys in hotel rooms left and right...all while passing anti-homosexual legislation in his state....
....all because instead of accepting himself, he hates himself because God hates what he was born as, what God made him as. So he get married, had kids, etc. Then he gets caught, scandal! and his whole life and career are over....this happens on a damn near regular basis these days.
That's just an example of suppression. But you as a male or female can be on the sexuality spectrum and express and super masculine all the way to a fairy level of femininity, but you could still be straight. Think of the fem/masc as a slider from left to right. Now look at it in 3d BITCHES! *watches Billy Bob's head explode*
You move left to right for say...left is fem and right is masc. But then you gooo left and down...as a man, down is fem, so fem fem and you realize you transsexual. The diagram I have in my head is so much more complicated, but this works for now. So you might be a guy that is far left and up...so your like Edward from Twilight...a total fucking fairy, BUT super straight and into that human puntang.
So you should look at where you fall on the scale of acting feminine (left) or masculine (right) or reverse if that's more comfortable, just draw the diagram. It's 3d but the vers I simplified fits on 2d paper. So you select where your at left---right, then move up---down up being masc and down being fem. It's a lil obvious with the whole gay thing of tops and bottoms...so it's kinda natural to put it the same way on the graph, at least it makes it easier for me to thing of.
So yeah I don't know shit about all that, but I can try as best I know to put myself into that person and see things from their perspective....with their highly specific perception on how they themselves and only they interpret reality...and how that is closely shared with those that share those same qualities of thought and components of their own identities that bring forth these sub cultures, groups, or whatever you want to call them.
I just call them people on their own fucking journey and try to be as little a cunt as possible when interacting with them or anyone else while giving as much respect and courtesy as received...as always. Whelp...fuck me, I'm drunk. I hope something in this retarded ramble was useful, divinely channeled psychobabble...whatever you want to call it. PM me with any specific questions about...fuck what ever. I like helping you bastards. :P