Passing Stranger
800 QA Reputation195 | Caiti said 9 years, 5 months ago: I remember every word people say to me. If someone says anything that hurts me, I cannot let it go no matter how hard I try…I remember it and hold it as a negative memory…Even people I love. I just struggle with letting go. I still love these people, but think about the things that have hurt me constantly. Is this anyone else? | |
Common Friend
11476 QA Reputation619 | Unlikeany said 9 years, 5 months ago: I remember every word but I have finally learned to not take them too personally, not to let the negative words drown out the positives ones and to just let go. | |
Passing Stranger
800 QA Reputation195 | Caiti said 9 years, 5 months ago: Good advice, Unlikeany. It can be so hard to move on from people’s words and misjudgments, though. | |
Newbie
0 QA Reputation0 | Deleted User said 9 years, 5 months ago: Those words and misjudgments hurt everybody I guess and believe me u do remember but learn to get over it learn to let it go.u hurt urself further by remembering it and I know it’s easier said than done bug I speak from experience.love urself enough and trust urself enough to know that sometimes those negative just don’t apply to u and the people who say them are just miserable. | |