Sentinel said 11 years ago:
I definitely agree that the lessons learned in childhood are bound to stay with us for a great deal of our lives; that much is inarguable as its been covered by scientists the world over. I am, however, afraid I am going to have to fundamentally differ with you on a few other of your points @ggshop.
First of all, willing a positive mindset has a name in psychology: it is called self-regulation and it is found to increase happiness, self-esteem and reported self-efficacy in day to day life. Self-regulation entails controlling your own mind set and emotions to an extent, rather than being subject to the whims of your emotion. This type of message definitely promotes breaking free from the shackles we ourselves see.
Further, this type of thought process drives us, as I mentioned, to break free from our constraints. And you are right, this is not a LASTING/LONG-TERM goal for everyone, but it is a first step. It is an idea, and ideas hold with them the dream of betterment: the will to break the stagnation that grips us all at some point.
And lastly, it takes a split second to view your life; anyone who has stood at the edge will tell you the same thing. What takes time are the skills to change, that you did mention.
All in all, kickass stuff @alexx
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