topher said 8 years, 8 months ago:

So I’m a trans guy who is pre-t pre.. everything.

I’ve battled with being able to eat properly since I was 14 or 15. I’m 22 now. But I’m still huge. My weight fluctuates frequently and every time I try to get it to stay down, it just jumps straight back up. It’s bothering me so much this entire month, especially since my binder no longer fits properly enough because my fucking breasts decided that they’re going to grow more.

I’ve tried eating right and exercising. It barely helps, then my anxiety with locker rooms comes back. And then I just stop going. Then I feel worse, and say fuck it, and stop eating, and then everything comes back.

I dunno what to do.

Anonymous said 8 years, 8 months ago:

I feel the same.

Emily said 8 years, 8 months ago:

Hey, your body shape/size or appearance doesn’t make you any less of a person and it’s possible to build up your confidence and make a really productive and healthy plan to help you improve your already fantastic self. Don’t think of it as losing weight, but gaining strength and looking after your bod. Since your habits are also very serious and very damaging you should seek help from a doctor. You deserve to work on yourself not just physically, but emotionally and mentally. I hope you recover soon!