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@pepperman- In reply to: ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update I keep screwing up my love life and I’m so tired of it. View
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It’s great to see you back on Blah @pepperman, you are right, this is a compassionate and amazing site filled with the most helpful people, keep being lovely and wonderful, hope you are OK, I’m always here if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone
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Your words are very encouraging @pepperman welcome back
@pepperman Welcome back!
I’m really happy to see you’re doing well. And thank you for the positivity, Blah sure needs it!
Thanks for the warm welcome Oli. I am going to take your advice to heart when or if I ever need it, and I just hope you know that if you ever need anyone too, well we are all here.
Well thank you Mariko! I’m glad to be back..atleast for now. I hope you’re doing well too? It’s incredible what a simple honest word can do to brighten someone’s day…we forget that sometimes. Thanks for reminding of that.
Thank you! Message me if you ever feel like more encouragement or if your just feeling chatty.
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Hopefully you will be able to build up a bond and friendship with this person @pepperman, try talking to them, start a conversation and see what happens, maybe they will respond positively, you deserve good people around you, everyone does, hold your head up high, keep going and don’t give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat…[Read more]
Liking someone is a part of life, we are attracted to people and sometimes it does pain us to not be with them. I am so part of that club.
It’s been quite a long time since I’ve felt that way for someone. But I surely understand.
theneed for companionship is a motherfucker its probably one of the hardest things we deal with as humans it used to simply be we need to populate the earth and now its more of a status symbol whenever i struggle with something i try to boil it down to the facts what do i know about the world as fact and where is there falseness the fact is and i…[Read more]
theneed for companionship is a motherfucker its probably one of the hardest things we deal with as humans it used to simply be we need to populate the earth and now its more of a status symbol whenever i struggle with something i try to boil it down to the facts what do i know about the world as fact and where is there falseness the fact is and i…[Read more]
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I would try talking to a counsellor or therapist @pepperman, you are a lovely person who deserves all the best in life, I don’t want to see you hurt or in pain, try to stay positive and focus on all the good things that will happen to you, I’m sure things will be OK, hold your head up high, keep going and don’t give up, you can do it, I’m…[Read more]
Remember online tests aren’t fully accurate and the only way to truly get diagnosed is to go to a psychiatrist or psychologist. You are an awesome person and it’s ok to be different. As someone with Bipolar disorder I know what it is like to lash out at people suddenly, I am always open to talk and will try to help however I can. We will try to…[Read more]
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exactly things arent roses and butterflies the simple fact of the matter is were all just here trying to coexist theres no real point to anything since this life is in fact temporary we all die its going to happen there’s no magical mysterious meaning to it we delude ourselves thinking there could be a better place but we in fact simply don’t…[Read more]
Please don’t feel alone @pepperman, remember we are all here to support you on Blah, I may not know you personally but I want to see you smiling and being fantastic, things will work out for you and so many more brighter and better days will be ahead, you will do great things and you will have a fabulous future, hold your head up high and be as…[Read more]
@pepperman To some extent, acting like you feel better is proven to help a bit to actually make you feel better, that might be one reason people suggest it to you. I think ‘life sucks’ is reductive, yes there’s not much fairness or control but we would be lying if we said we never enjoy anything. We have our good moments, and to some extent, we…[Read more]
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It is hard at first, but then you’ll realise that you’re ok doing things that make you happy.
Just don’t do anything that can hurt someone else and you’ll feel really free, you know, without caring about how others see you and also a little ”f*ck it” attitudeRemember to do what makes you happy and comfortable in life @pepperman, stay positive and do inspire people as you go along, I’m sure things will work out for you 100%, never give up, I’m always here if you ever need to chat
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I think you can do anything that you put your mind too!
@pepperman that’s very sweet of you
We need more people as kind as you
Keep being the kind, compassionate and lovely person that you are @pepperman, always be sweet and spread hope as much as you can, smile and keep going, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone
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That’s a lot of things you’re trying there all at once. Maybe you could just do one and go from there. One step, one thing at a time. A simple exercise is called 10:1 – You bless the first 10 people you meet in your day (a kind word, an encouraging thought, A note of encouragement, a quick prayer for them), and 1 random act of kindness each day.…[Read more]
That’s very kind and sweet and you can do it! Just take one day at a time. (:
”it feels almost impossible sometimes…to be honest” truest thing ive heard anybody say in a long time