Why would a guy take the virginity of a girl who he doesn’t want a relationship with?

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Basically him and a girl agreed that the both don’t want a relationship. So they will just talk and mess around/

Category: asked July 3, 2013

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A guy will do and say anything to have sex. It will never be your fault; most guys are jerks, or just no ready for a relationship but if you also want to have sex, you cannot just say I want to be in a relationship before I have sex, no sex is just something people do because they can't help their urges.
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Well if they both agreed to do so, I don't see anything wrong with that. I think it's an obsolete way of thinking that everyone waits till they get married, because they don't. People are getting married when they are older compared to in the past people would get married at 15 and whatnot and now it's closer to 30. Also, there is nothing wrong in being sexually active if you are safe. If they both consented to it then there's nothing wrong with it. You don't need love or a relationship to have sex with them you know? Anyway, you shouldn't judge people let them do as they want with their virginities and whatnot, and just worry about yourself.
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Some guys just want to take a girls virginity just to say that they have -- its more of a possession thing rather than a relationship or "feeling" thing. Of course, not all guys are like this. Some guys just want to have sex. Virginity is important to some people more than others. It's a personal choice. If this is what they both want, then there is nothing wrong with that.
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These are not excuses. Men should cherish women. Women You should keep your virginity till after marriage. IE till after the guy learns about what a relationship is at least. You see a relationship is a learned behavior. I'm saying it takes effort. Unfortunately in today's world Men often take the path of least resistance. Please, realize that all Men are born with glands that are loaded! They very quickly begin to know hot desire for sexual contact. And mostly Men have a hard time controlling those desires. But that is there responsibility to do so.


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