Why wasn’t i good enough?

it was love at first sight, about a month ago, i fell in absolute love with this completely amazing girl, i put my all into the possibility of us being something more. We shared so much in common and it almost felt like i had finally found the person i had been searching for for so long, and she felt the same way or so it appeared. Then she left me to be with her ex, who cheats on her, is never there for her when she needs it the most and treats her completely wrong. I guess the saying is true that nice guys never win but even though i’ve felt this before i cant help but feel empty inside all over again just as things seemed like they were looking up. i try to just distance myself from it all in a hope that it will just go away, but everytime i close my i all i see is her face. i guess what im trying to ask is where did i go wrong?

Category: Dating & Relationships asked November 10, 2014

link

sk8erdude

3 Answers

Hey honey. All I can say is that it's okay to be heart broken, but the pain means you are healing. You don't have to be okay, you just need to know that you WILL be. You did nothing wrong. Some times things don't work out, and thats alight. If you want to talk more, please message me! I would love to help you in any way I can!

link

OwlsWisdom

I have a friend who is still with her boyfriend even though they fight A LOT. She told me she wants to break up with him but it's hard because they been together for so long. She got so used to having him around that it's hard to imagine life without him. YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG. It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with her. Like my friend, the girl in question is most likely still emotionally attached to her ex. Although he treats her badly, I doubt there's little you can do to change her mind about him. Yeah it sucks but don't kill yourself over it. Definitely distance yourself from the situation and time will help you heal. Surround yourself with friends and people you love and keep yourself busy.

link

blaqkcat

It isnt that you wernt good enough. You just didn't meet the right person. You sound like a very good person and you will surely meet someone who is right for you eventually. It takes a long time and often that fact frustrates people to a point where they settle for someone of lower quality(not saying you did. I am just saying be careful of that. It happened to me and it isnt fun) you put everything into a relationship but unless the other person is matching it then it wont work. Relationships are 50/50. They have to be. If they are not then they will not work. Find someone who puts enough into your relationship to make it work. If you put in way more and you can see it yourself then chances are it will not work out. Goodluck my friend and dont give up. It takes time but you will find that person.

link

Let's Talk

123