Why it’s so complicated?

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Well… my mom it’s always asking me questions of what have i done that day, but extreme questions like at what time i was there, who have i met, and also in what chair have i sat, she says that i need space to talk to a guy that i like or to a friend, and to study by myself, but minutes later she’s always asking what i am doing, and if i lie to her or don’t answer she gets angry and don’t let me hang out…
She also tell me to study but when i do, she isn’t at home and don’t trust me and gets angry with me because she suppose i am liying
I don’t know what to do because in my house she’s always shouting at me and it arrives the moment where i don’t feel like at home…
what should i do?

Category: Tags: asked May 31, 2014

2 Answers

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Has anything happened that's broken her trust? If so, you'll just have to earn it back by proving the things she's wanting you to do. If that's not the case though, and you haven't done anything to break her trust, she sounds quite paranoid, but she could also just be highly concerned for some reason. If you haven't already, try talking to her about this. Don't forget to defend yourself though, because she shouldn't be assuming things and accusing you of being a liar when she doesn't really know for a fact what's going on.
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She's too worried about you and is over-stressing herself. Try sitting her down sometime and ask her if she's been feeling okay. Tell her that you've been noticing that she's put a lot of attention on you lately and she's been getting a bit smothering.