Why is it hard to be human?

I can make out how you feel, I feel the same way.This world is a strange place, and the people are strange too,it was better if I weren't born at all.

Being a person can be difficult, but the point of living is to be happy. Finding a job can be hard, but it should always be something you enjoy. You may feel like whatever you do is pointless, but remember, if you don't be who you are, and livd, who else will? Life may seem stupid and pointless now, but you might do something ground breaking later. The people in your life right now may not care about yoh, but someone you don't know yet does. Out there is a guy or girl that will make you so happy, and you will make them happy. Without you, it won't happen. Saying something like "Why are we here?" is a popular question to ask. Religion sometimes doesn't make sense, but it's a beautiful thing. It gives people something to look forward to in life. Don't think it's pointless, and you should care about what happens to you, because I do, and so do the people of this website. If you need help with anything, e-mail me or start a chat. <3

Funny thing, finding a job and socialising is not actually required to live :) its just that society today drills it into our heads, you can physically live without a job and you can physically live without socialising, Being human is only hard because of the standards that others set for us ( our social norms ). Our society hates difference, it exists to make us conform, turn mindless and follow everything without hesitation. That being said. You can break out of this. Instead of doing what other people want of you, do what you want, become what you want and persue your dreams no matter what they are. If you love it, and if you believe you can do it, its for you. Life works according to thoughts and perspectives :) It was once said that if you believe a task to be difficult, the universe demonstrates the struggle and if you believe it to be simple, the Universe demonstrates the ease. Its not being Human thats the problem. Its societies attempt to control our will and keep us tame, thats the issue here.

I often ask myself why being a person is such a hard life, and at times I feel like happiness is so rare that it may not be worth it... But there is also something in me that gives me purpose to it all; I'm just really curious to see what happens during the limited amount of years I have in this universe. I believe in no after-life, nothing beyond what science can reveal and because of this I want to live my life to the very end just to see it through and do whatever I can to be part of life on earth. I really like the universe and the fact that it's not centered around me. Even if life is really tough it's the only way for me to appreciate the universe so like even in dark times that fact keeps me going.

I definitely agree, especially about the job thing. I'm in the worst job I've ever had, and I'm being told left right and centre that I can't quit without getting another job because "that would be stupid". I feel like the best thing would be a massive change of scenery. Move to another city, or country. I feel like a big change can really help, especially for you who is finding it difficult to see what the point really is of these things. I also agree that society really shoves us all to go to school, graduate, get a job, have a family, and then pretty much just die. To me, that's not all I want in life, I feel like there's much more than what society wants us to do. It's just difficult for others to see that society can be choking, and they don't understand. Keep on keeping on, my friend.