i talk to this boy and we been talking since February of last year (2014) he kept asking me out but i kept teling him no bc i had jst gotten out of a bad relationship.then my phone broke and i was phoneless for about 2 or 3 months. THEN HE GOT in a relationship with someone else while we stopped talking. then on my birthday in november we started back talking and talk on a daily basic now. he broke up with her once we started talking and i asked him my chances of getting with him since i started liking him. and he said not just yet he isnt ready. but i am he still talks to his ex but says he doesnt wanna be with her. how does he think hes gonna get over her if they still talk. he sends me goodmorning beautiful calls me bae and baby and i call him “my baby”. I love him but im not in love WITH him,/.. if that makes sense . sorry for making this so long. but i just need to know if hes just leading me on or not.
There could be a huge possibility that he is confused himself or knows exactly what he is getting himself into but has no way to explain himself into actions, guys are weird like that they have their own way of showing how they feel but do stupid things you should confront him about what you feel, because you getting broken may lead to something bad. I know what your thinking "I don't want to lose him or make him stop talking to me" but the thing is you have to take that risk , because there is a possibility he would act before you can and you would be the one regretful and wishing you didn't make the mistake you did . He can just be one of those stupid boys who likes more than one girl or it's just how he is or a one-sided love if he doesn't like you back he doesn't deserve you , i am sorry making this so long though
@Amethyst everytime i would try to talk about it her would try to change the subject like hes afraid to let me know his feelings. its like he pushes them to the side so i try no to bring up stuff like that anymore
You're going to need to bluntly honest with him and you both need to share your feelings. He seems confused, I'm the same way. Just get deep with him and spill out all you feel and ask him if he could do the same.