Why is he ignoring me?

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Ok so i like this guy. He’s about 8 years older than me. The age difference is hard but we’re basically together just not officially. We had an amazing time hanging out on Sunday and then Monday he told me he wanted nothing more than to hang out with me on Tuesday but on Tuesday he completely ignored me and I haven’t heard from him at all… we’ve hung out quite a bit and idk why hes ignoring me and im just really confused. im 17. but its not like its illegal, we arent having sex and age of consent is 16 here. Ive texted him twice and Ive gotten no response, and hes never ignored me before. He’s always provided a reason as to why things didn’t work out that day. Always replies. I knew he was ignoring me because he was on Facebook. He never goes on facebook and he doesn’t have it on his phone just sitting there logged on. Please help, I never felt closer to him these past few days and now he’s ignoring me!

Category: Tags: asked November 27, 2013

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It's possible that he's taking the time to reevaluate his feelings to be sure that he wants to continue seeing you as he was, but it's also possible that he genuinely had something come up and decided that it was in his better interest to not keep you informed. There's really no way of knowing exactly why he stopped talking to you without him telling you exactly what it was. I suggest reaching out on Facebook, if you haven't sent him a large amount of texts already. Or, perhaps give him a call and leave a voicemail making sure he was alright and that you'd be there when he was ready to talk. I've had the same situation happen to me before, and it turned out he had been seeing someone else and she had found out about me. Hopefully it's not the same for you, but you never know. Good luck figuring it out, but whatever happens, just be aware that if he decided to cut off communication, there's no reason for you to go after him further. That, of course, was an "IF". Otherwise, I'm sure he'll answer. He seems nice enough from your description. Good luck. Cheers xo
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Patience, you really just need patience. There are way to many options to why he is not replying. I know it's nerve racking but there is nothing that can be done but to wait. I don't suggest you worry so much you ruin everyday life for you. Sometimes a man does need to have time to think over things or just need a little space.