I broke up with him 5 months ago & we dated for a year. After 5 months of no talking to each other, I found myself happier, more confident and able to live without him. I still care so much but I don t see myself going back out with him. I don t know how he felt but Im 100 % sure he did not feel the same & I know he was angry about it. I decided to allow him back into my life after cutting ties randomly and rudely. I still have a soft spot for him and I regretted the way I broke up w/ him. I was so immature. But anyways, I allowed him to text me after randomly bumping into each other in public. He told me he s still interested but a part of me feels like he s only talking to me to occupy his time, or he s lonely. I haven t seen effort on his part much that shows he really wants to be with me besides texting me good morning, kiss emojis and complementing me etc. I deff think he still has feelings for me but he doesn t make an effort to show that he wants to be with me like visiting me. He was suppose to visit me the other day but i told him he doesn t have to if he doesn t want to because it was cold out and he had to walk to come see me, he got mad for a sec and actually didn t show up. I was kinda dissapointed. I shouldn t care b/c i don t really want to date him again, but if he can drastically prove to me and win me over which would take a lot then maybe I can reconsider.
Do you think he’s using me?
