=/ why do i have this urge….

ok so ive been with my bf for about 3 years he made it clear at one point that he didnt believe in marriage which immmm a pretty opened minded person (or id like to think i am) so even though at first the thought of not getting married upset me and we had a sort of fight about it i ended up telling him that “I loved him more than marriage” and later he told me that if anyone could change his mind about marriage it would be me …so that gave me some hope at least but still if we never did get married i know he is the one i want to be with forever….we have not talked about it since then and that was a year ago….but lately……every time he does something sweet….every time he smiles that oh so beautiful smile ….i have an urge to just scream MARRY ME!….i even catch myself almost calling him my husband sometimes….=p i dont though partly because im scared he still feels like marriage isnt important annnnnd partly because even i know we couldnt get married right now lol…..but i still have an urge to tell him i want him to be my husband……..or maybe i want HIM to want to be my husband ….idk =S……..feelings are weird

Category: Dating & Relationships asked April 19, 2014

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Brooke

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Girl, you LOVE him, it feels natural to want to take that next step, it isn't something wrong with you!

When it boils down to it, you are together. That is what counts. Love each other, be there for each other. Stop concerning yourself with labels, titles, appellations and names. Your relationship is no more or less validated by a ceremony and a day spent at the courthouse getting your name changed.

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Humanist Hope

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In this day and age lables and tittles have gone down the way side,and ts a shame! If you want to be married stick to what you want.
Like anything in life If we want some thing,or have valuses we shouldnt let any one take that away from us,dont let other people change our mind.
If he wants to marry you he want need pressure from you.If its imoprtand to you,but dont push him into something he doesn't want.It want last if you do that.
Relationships need working on all the time and adding pressure want be of any good.Even though there is to much divorce out there,more people that are married do usualy try harder to keep their relationship going, than those that are not.To many people who feel its just a peice of paper,find it easy to just leave and more often never care about who they have left behind.

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Anonymous

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If he loves you like you love him, then he'll realize that this is important to you. If he can't sacrifice his pride for you, then maybe 'boyfriend' isn't the right label.

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TheMalapert

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