I am a 43 year old, soon to be divorced woman who is trying to get back into the dating scene after 25 years with the same man. I find myself stumbling through what the expectations are from men in my age group. If try to play it cool and act like I couldn’t care what happens, they seem to lose interest. But then if I am too enthusiastic, they think I’m too clingy. It seems that I can’t find a middle ground. And then there are times when they say and do all the right things, I get caught up in the passion of “newness” of it all, end up sleeping with them and then, well…we all know where that usually leads – nowhere. Can someone…a guy in my age group maybe, tell me what the rules are? I feel as clueless as I did in high school! Any feedback would be appreciated.