I started dating a guy in August. We dated for about a month and I broke up with him because I felt like he was very unsupportive of me while I was going through a difficult time with my son. We were broken up, not even a week when he told me he wanted to work things out. We were together for another month when he decided that he wasn’t sure he wanted a relationship at the moment. We were still talking and hanging out once in a while and apparently his thought was that we would have a relationship when he was ready. Due to this thought, he informed me last night that when we broke up the first time he had sex with another girl, twice, and that it meant nothing but he needed solace. He stopped talking to her when we got back together. I cannot figure out why I am soooo upset about this.
While I do love him and care for him a lot, I am not in love with him and have had no intention of being in a relationship with him again. I really have no right to be mad at him for his actions because we were broken up. Initially I felt like it didn’t matter. Then when I realized it had to have been right after we broke up I felt upset and brought it up and he told me it was the next day.
I can’t stop thinking about it, and it even made me cry today. It’s upsetting me more that I’m upset about it because I can’t figure out why. I wish he never told me.