I dated this guy for 3 years. He was my best friend. Then after 3 years, poof! He just left. He found himself another girl. A Sexy, headturning click, which definitely is my opposite. I’m quite boyish and snob at times and weird. It turns out that while he wasn’t finished with me, he was already with his next girl. He left me because I won’t give him his Sexual desires. For 3 years I didn’t have the girlfriend title, nor was I even acknowledged by his friends or family as the girl he’s dating because he basically hid me. Now when I’m hearing about him and his new girl, I feel insecure. He’s with a girl he can brag to his friends because she’s a hot chick. I know him out of my life is a big and actually a positive change in my life but I can’t help but feel sad about it. She’s better at me on most things, especially the physical as the people compare. And i guess I feel insecure because she may get what I didn’t get with my relationship with him.