So I got invited to a formal on April 18th, and I didn’t thing that I’d be able to find a date so I just asked one of my girl-friends, and she said sure. She was my lab partner for science and we talk a bit. But then this guy who was my first friend in this town, made sure that I made friends, and got rid of my Social Anxiety asked me if I’d go with him, but I told him that’ I’d agreed to with a friend. I only talk to the girl at school, but I talk to the guy every day and we hang out almost every night. I know that I’ll have fun with either of them, but i feel like Ill have more fun with the guy because I know him better and am more comfortable around him. I want to go with him, but I don’t want to ditch her. But a little while ago, the guy brought me to a party that I wasn’t invited to so that I could make friends and become more social (I didn’t tell him about the social anxiety, nor do I plan to), and I made a lot of friend. So I owe him for the social anxiety and my friends. Without him I’d still be sitting in a corner alone and refuse to talk to anyone. But then She wasn’t Actually invited, she was just my plus one. Who should I go with? Sorry about how Lon this is
Edit: sorry, I probably should’ve said that it isn’t a formal dance for school, it’s a formal dance being held my one of my friends. So there were only about 6 people and their plus ones invited, and I can’t bring then as a group. And the girl always bails last minute, but when I told him that he said no to the other girl who’d asked him. He actually asked me again, but instead he said “if ******* can’t go, wanna go with me?” So I think that that’ll work. Thanks for the answers! I was already telling people that I’d go with her, but they kept telling me to go with him. I just wanted an unbiased opinion