When to tell her I love her?

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I have been dating this girl since October and I really Like her. I have wanted to date her since freshman year (I am a senior) and now I finally am. I feel like I am in love with her but I don’t want to tell her that too soon and ruin the relationship. How do I know it is the right time to tell her I love her.

Category: asked March 22, 2014

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dont tell her you love her until you know you can handle even the worst parts of her. dont tell her you love her until you know you are mature enough to follow through. the right time can be in two months, or two years. It all depends on where you two are at. but love is more than a feeling, it's a decision to commit and to handle all of her human flaws. You need to know what you're getting yourself into. Too many guys throw the word love around believing that it is just about the feeling and nothing else. But it is so much more. Don't be that guy. Don't make that mistake. Love is a mental thing as much as it is an emotional one. It requires a LOT of strength, and it requires you to trust and respect her fully. Wait until you two have had a few fights, if you still love her, then tell her. If you are not sure, there is nothing wrong with talking to her about it. Ask her what she thinks about love, her answers about love might make you come to certain conclusions as well. But in the end. Don't tell her you love her unless you are willing to put up with all the shitty parts of a relationship.
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Firstly, remember that there is nothing wrong in taking a long time to speak those words to your partner and if one person says it, the other does not automatically need to say it back. If it is coming from the heart (which I can only assume it is), then you will know when the time is right because you will fell right about saying it to her.

Also, I believe that love is more of an action rather than just a feeling so my suggestion would be to also show her how you love her, rather than just telling her.
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Tell her you love her now ! Carpe diem, seize the day. Express your feelings now before the opportunity is lost.
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Hmm..sounds to me that perhaps you need to wait,sorry!.
I say this because of your words you used at the very beginning of your post" I really Like her", Now.... you wouldnt have said LIKE at all if you are truly loving her.May be you need a little more time befor you jump in and say those three little words,as they mean so much and once said can't be taken back.
The words I LOVE YOU! will natually come out when the time is right,you want need to think about it regardless of what the out come may be.