when is the right time ?


i love this girl and been with her for 3 months going on 4 i know 100% that i love her and id love to elope with her but when would be the right time becuase i dont want to rush it but i know i want to and if it was up to me id ask her llike right now littrally

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4 Answers

Preferably when you have the time, money and transportation.
I'll add onto what Jonathan said:
1. Wait until this honey-moon phase is over to see if you really can battle the odds
2. Get a little older. You're still growing. I'm not saying there aren't exceptions, but marriage at such an early age is more often than not ill-fated
3. Make sure your girlfriend is ready too. This can't be a one-sided deal.
4. Really think about the meaning of marriage. It's not a game. You will be spending the rest of your life with this person, it'll no longer be 'I', you'll have to make sacrifices and compromises, you'll have to work it out, you have to stay committed, and there's so much more that is probably beyond my scope since I'm not a married person.
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haha havent gotton married yet but its been over a year and got to visit last few weeks ago and it was the best week i ever had she was vary happy as well i do intend to marry her someday :)