Recently got in a fight over old sext messages…I don’t get what the big deal is. They were words on a phone. Nothing physical ever came of it.
And for the record no photos were exchanged either. Was literally words that’s all.
Both of us were consenting adults and I trusted him…which is why it happened in the first place.
I felt it wasn’t any issue but my boyfriend/fiancé…seems to feel differently…he is holding it against me as if I had done the things I did in the texts…but I didn’t…they were just words in a message. I mean sure I get he’s pissed because I was talking like that to someone else and not him…but other than that…I don’t get what’s the issue.