What’s right and what’s wrong?

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I don’t really know the difference anymore.
I’ve been thinking about my problems, and I know the answers are all obvious to me and everyone else, but I don’t do it because I have special bonds with these people.
Example, a friend of mine is often yelling at me for playing a game as a game, and not taking her into account ‘as much as I should’ while playing. What should I do? Remind her that it’s a game or leave her.
Example, a guy I love is rude, and everyone else also says so. His feeligs waver every week or few days, so should I like him? No, I should ditch his sorry ass.

But those are rude things to do, because I made promises to both of them, and I have special relationships with these two. The girl is my bestest friend over the internet, and the boy was my first crush that I’m dating. If I ask anyone what to do, giving them only the details of what they do to me, they’ll tell me to leave. And I tell myself to leave, as well.

But doesn’t that mean it’s only right to leave everyone else I know, too? It’s not only those two that have ruined my life. Infact, they’ve improved my life more than anyone else has. But even I know it’s better to leave them, but I do that with everyone. I always leave everyone. Is it right to do this again and again? I mean, I hate being left behind, but I go on with it because the other person wished for it. But all my friends are sensitive, and will see me as another backstabber and liar if I go. And I will miss my times with them, as they are irreplacable, so..

Is being alone, leaving every body behind in the end, the right thing?
Or is juggling everyone’s happiness on my weak body what I’m supposed to do?

They’re too reliant on me to just get up and leave them and I just am not sure what I’m supposed to do with people’s feelings anymore. Hurt them with the truth that I’m tired of things, or prioritize their happiness? I’m always happy anyways, so my happiness is out of this..

Category: Tags: asked October 26, 2014

3 Answers

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My advice : TALK to them, both. Tell them what is problem, that you can't stand it anymore. If they are worth your love and not leaving them, they will try to change things, to work it out with you. If not, you know what to do.. good luck !
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all you need is an open communication,its good to think about other feelings and caring about them but u can make others happy only when you truly are.all you have to do is just sit with them and talk with them clearly about how you feel,in this way they'll place their problems that u can solve and when you'll place your problems they'll try to understand.don't you think thats what love and friendship is? understanding and loving comes when you actually are happy with them.few or more incidents,you'll be able to overcome.all you need to is gather your courage and let them hear your feelings.sometimes u don't have to walk away but stand right their and work together to build a strong bond.don't walk away,you can do it,no matter how nervous or embarrassing you feel but this is the best thing you can do :) all the best :)
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One of the biggest challenges people face today is being able to communicate with each other and handle challenging situations. Instead people avoid them and leave, and then they wonder down the road why they keep ending up in the same situations. It's because they didn't resolve it correctly the first time, so they're still being exposed to it but with different people. If you run from your problems, they will only chase you throughout your life until you've successfully learned how to deal with this. You can avoid a lot of stress later in life, by sticking it out and learning to communicate with each other in an effective way.