Here's a list: Haha pardon if the words are kind of awkward!(1) This one's the best - Take your mistake as a joke! Take it lightly. Just laugh it off and she'll find it funny too. Plus, happy people are charming.(2) "Oh oops!" - For if you drop something or bump into her(3) Explain clearly and honestly why you did what you did and directly express concern though use of language, etc. Then say you meant no harm by it. But if you did something wrong, say sorry. That's what sorry's for!(4) "Oh. Derp." Sorry to introduce gamer language here, but it's effective and another form of taking life lightly! Besides, is that TF2 I see? :P If so, Medic! Yus! Best class! Good for you! If you don't play TF2 and have no idea what I'm talking about... Just... Just forget about it lolBut honestly I think that laughing it off is by far the most powerful substitute. Laughing never can really be overused, and it makes you seem more confident, relaxed, and happy and makes you feel that way as well. Just look at it in a positive light and see that it's funny when you've made a small foolish mistake that's not hurting anyone! But when you really are sorry, explain your side of the story and explain that you didn't mean to hurt her at all. For girls, apologies are big things, and usually 'Sorry.' for being late for a date or something. Chances are, she isn't even bothered about your repeated 'sorry's, but rather, your lack of confidence! Just learn to ease up and relax a little! Life's funny! Tiny mistakes can be funny! Don't make yourself miserable and beat yourself up over it!