What Should I Say To Him

There’s this guy,(lets call him Bob) (we’re around 14)
He’s a close friend,he’s funny,nerdy(like me),always listens, and loves the same things as me.
Bob’s personality is perfect and I feel like I can tell him loads.
But he’s not really good looking, and I’m not attracted to him physically.

The last few days he has been almost ignoring me, then his friend,(lets call him Chris) asked me if Bob asked me out what would I say. I said I would say “I’ll think about it” because it never crossed my mind that Bob may of liked me like that. later Chris told me that bob did like me and Bob wanted Chris to ask me out for him(as he is quite shy).
Everyone else only judges people on their looks so I’m worried people will bully me(although they are bullying me about not ever having one ) if i went out with him. And I don’t know if I like him more than a friend

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Claret

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Firstly, focus on your studies. You're only fourteen. Plenty of time of relationships in the future when you're maturer.Second, relationships are not only about physical attractions. It's about fun. If you guys have fun together then go on a date. AGAIN, not a relationship, just a date. Don't commit yourself to something you'll face-palm yourself in future. Take things slow and don't worry about the other. Some people have mouths to yap and they will yap even if they're in worst state than you.Here's an advice. When someone makes fun of you, imagine them farting from their mouth. Automatically their opinions wont matter.Have fun ;) and STUDY HARD. That's what's going to help you in future. Not goofing around.

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MoosaDagia

Go out on a date, to a movie or dinner. And see if you both connect on a more personal, and relationship-like level. You may or may not find yourself more attracted to him after the first date, or it might take a couple dates. No worries if you don't gain feelings for him. Just gently let him know, and I'm sure he'll understand. As for the bullying. No one should be bullying you for not dating, or who you date. If your happy being single, and/or happy with the person you're dating, then who cares what they think. Good luck! Feel free to message me if you need more help with this, I'll try my best.

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Hannah

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