I’ll start off by saying that me and my girl friend of 2 years almost broke up about a week ago. We managed to come up with a compromise that we’d wait till the end of the month before making the final decision. I told her that I would change and reconsider my expectations from her. In the past I had more expectations from her than she could give…end of story (obvious fight).
She said we could have this last chance to make things work and of course I really want it to if it can happen. My problem is that while she is probably “trying” to make things work, it seems as though she is acting more rebellious in terms of behavior. I don’t want to assume that it’s intentional, but lets just say that “That Phone” is way too up in her business every min I’m with her. I don’t want this to become a rant, but believe me…if there is one thing I hate about SOME girls…is that damn phone they have to be on doing things like going on instagram, twitter, facebook, etc…I’m really sorry for those who like it…but seriously…there is a time and a place for that and when you’re with your boyfriend or girlfriend…that is not the place and it is definitely NOT ok to be using it for EVERY SINGLE second I’m your boyfriend or girlfriend is not talking. Not only is that rude, but it’s highly disrespectful especially when that person is taking time out of their day to spend with you. Essentially this is becoming more of a problem and I bite my tongue as much as I can, but it is very hard to spend time with her when all she seems interested in is playing Clash of Clans (which..yes is addicting) or going on instagram and facebook every time we’re not talking. It literally goes like (conversation…she talks less…she stops talking…I look over and there she is completely in that separate world…now I’m sitting/standing there with a girl next to me completely ignoring me and everyone around her…splendid)
Really, I’m so sorry if I offend anyone, but seriously I need help with her. She is not a boring person at all and I love spending time with her, but lately (even before the fight) all she seems to do is just spend time on her phone and I have no clue what to do other than to sit there starring in front of me until she’s done. Before, I didn’t have as much of a problem with this because it’d happen maybe 20% of the time, but now it’s like 99% of the time and it makes me rage inside. I even tried being stupid enough to use my phone when she does…but guess what…that only comforted her more into spending MORE time on the phone since she figure “I was busy too”. She gets mad if I talk about it or bring it up so that’s unfortunately not the best option even if that is the best one. I’m running out of patience just sitting there…leaving her would just be stupid since that won’t solve the problem…and if anything it’ll just create awkward friction between us.
Yea I know it sounds like I don’t want a solution, but I figure I’m not the only one who ever had this problem so any suggestion would be nice.