Hey, I’m going to keep this very brief.
Me and my girlfriend would have been together 3 years at the end of this month (May 2015). She temporarily broke up with me a ffew days ago because she wasn’t sure about how she felt beeing in a relationship anymore. You could say a ‘break’ in a way. I’m 21 and she’s 19 (16 and 18 getting together), she still says she loves me and everything is still on good terms between us (not speaking at the moment due to brake up, giving her time and space).
I guess what I’m asking is,
1. What should I do now? Am I doing the right thing giving her time and space?
2. Is there anything I could do to help persuade her to give us a chance?
3. With our 3 year anniversary coming up, and us where we are now, not seeing or speaking to eachother (out of choice not hatred or resent), do I give a card? A present? Ask if she wants to meet or something? Or just a simple text/phone call to let her know that I’m thinking of her and I miss her on our special day?
I don’t want to confuse her or mess with her in anyway, she has been amazing over the past 3 years with me and my family, I just want to do the right thing by her, but I do hope more than anything that I can win her back.
Any advice, big or small is greatly appreciated! Past experiences or just recommendations! Thanks