What is up with my weight? ((Girls only if possible))

Alright so I’m 13, (I’m a girl)
and I am 5’6 (I know I’m a giant okay…)
and 116 pounds.

People say it’s a perfect weight and stuff and I personally think that’s a nice number BUT..
Im not gaining weight in the right places….

You see…My thighs are becoming HUGE. Like I mean HUGE. While my stomach and chest are NOTHING BUT SKIN. I have some side fat but still…Wtf…
You can see my ribs and my chest is almost flat, heck even my friends who are a year younger have larger chests than I do! I feel so insecure,
Why am I not gaining weight in my upper body?
Is this some sort of a disease?
I’m sick of getting fat in my thighs, why can’t it go to my chest, it wouldn’t be bad for my arms either, they’re like sticks, too thin….
Should I be worried or is this normal? :/ And do you think my chest is going to develop any more? I’m so sad I have to wear padded bras and stuff…Ugh.

*Oh and does anyone have an idea when I will stop growing!? I’m really tired of towering over other girls..*

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Uni

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2 Answers

Disease? Girl, you're ONLY 13, you just entered the puberty period, you're just starting to grow up! I know, especially nowadays some girls develops chest and periods really early, but not having them how they should means that they're still growing. Normally a girl stops to grow up around 18-20 years, and not each of them has a big chest. so just wait patiently and please, don't worry already about how your body is going to grow up. You're still a little girl, you have years in front of you before your body will finish growing up, so just do what you always do, and if you really want to remove the fat that you don't like, you can make specific exercise for that part of the body. Good luck, girl!

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Red Sheep

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You have nothing to feel insecure about, although those feelings are natural for you right now, as you are at the peak of the activity of your hormones, which might make you stress about yourself and feel insecure a little. It is natural, all the changes happening in your body. You are just becoming who you are supposed to be! Also, don't worry about your cup size; some women have large breasts and some have small breasts, but beauty isn't in your body, it's in your heart and it's in your mind. If you can become happy with yourself and accept what your body is becoming, it doesn't matter what other people think. P.S. I am quite short, and short girls complain about being short, and tall girls complain about being tall. You just have to look at the advantages. Perhaps, taking up basketball? c:

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ToxicWitness