What does true love look or feel like?

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I have been feeling down lately. I’m not sure if I have depression or if I try to tell myself that I do in order to find a reason why I feel this way.

Anyway, I’m wondering if someone can tell me what true love is like. I have a girlfiend whom I love very much; I have thought many times that our love is the truest kind.

As with every romantic relationship, I expect (this is my first one), we have issues like with communication and other problems. It is not always a bed of roses – but we have moments when I’m positive that I’m with the person with whom I want to be for the rest of my life. Others, I am so sure that I disappoint her or that she wishes I were different, that I can’t imagine remaining together because it would hurt so much to be a disappointment.

In summary, I am sure that true love doesn’t mean that there aren’t any problems. But I also don’t know when to start thinking that it might be time to consider the possibility that I was wrong all along.

Thanks for your time. I appreciate you reading this, an whatever input you may provide.

Update: Thanks so much for the kind words. I did not expect such an awesome and quick response. Indeed, I believe I already know that I’ve found true love – and must continue to nourish and communicate to make it last and grow. Thank you, again. God bless you all.

Category: Tags: asked May 17, 2014

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To be honest I think that true love is hard to find, but possible if you believe it exists. We have two kinds of "love". Conditional and unconditional. In this world we of often see the "conditional love". I love this or that person because of this or that. That is conditional. Now, if that person stops doing those things you love, would you still love that person as much? If that strikingly beautiful person turns ugly would you still lover her/him as much? That brings questions to every relationship. A balanced loving relationship is a give and take thing. In order for it to be healthy between two loving people, it has to be that way, or else problems chime in because we humans (some of us at least), want to be loved and when we are not loved by the person we love it hurts. I don't want to be overly religious or anything like that but after evaluation I believe true love is what the bible describes because indeed who would do such things except he/she loves a lot AND unconditionally. Here you go, 1st Corinthians 13: 4-7 : "4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." That's what true love looks like. Now how does it feel like? Group all the most beautiful emotions you have ever felt and imagine feeling all that at the same time. That's how true love is suppose to feel, AWESOME!
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true is patient, true love is kind, it is not rude, it is not self seeking, it keeps no record of wrongs.it knows who the one and only head is :)
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No one can tell you what true love is because it's different for every person. If it's true love, you'll know it. Sounds like you already do :)
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Why would you have a true love then be denied to know him?