Often in-order to answer a question; We need to break it down.
Let's break this down; Shall We?
Step #1:
BPD - Borderline personality disorder
NPD - Narcissistic personality disorder
Step #2:
Let's Focus on the keyword here (Disorder)
Let's find the definition of the word:
Disorder:
1. A lack of order or regular arrangement; confusion.
2. A breach of civic order or peace; a public disturbance.
Step #3:
Two emotionally medically evaluated disordered individuals; Coming together will eventually lead to disturbed relationship.
No matter how you look at this equation; unless proper medication and therapy is provided.Without supervision, This relationship cannot accept the execution of the word "Success".
Best of Wishes!