the reason i came to this question is because of a situation between my ex and I, she didnt talk to me for about a month, claiming to be busy, it was a few months with up to about 5 messages between us. i dont want to see someone else go through what i did, i didnt know what happened at first. for all i knew she could have been hit by a bus. but it is different in your situation, please, find a way to explain how you feel to him. i understand that she had no interest in me, but like i said your situation is different. like alice said, voice your opinion.