What does he want??!

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I’ve been talking to this guy, Brady, for a few months now. But I’ve known him for a year or so. And I liked him for a while. My friend decided to tell him that I like him, which is fine. Nothing really has changed since he was told that. Anyways, recently, he’s been a lot nicer than usual, and he keeps giving me hugs(which is fine : ) ) and these aren’t normal like, ‘hey how’ve you been?’ hugs, they’re really long, warm hugs. Almost 3 minutes long. But one day we were texting and I told him I like his Jeep, (cause he drives a Jeep) and he’s like, so you’re that kind of girl? I didn’t really know what he meant at first, so I said no? I’m not that kind of girl, which I’m not. But we proceeded to talk and he asked if I could provide him with pleasurable services, that’s how he worded it, too. I said, no! And we talked about it for a little longer, then he said if it made me uncomfortable, we could stop talking about it, so we did. Again, our conversations didn’t really get awkward, he still continued to give me hugs and such. But a few days ago, I asked him how he felt about me, like if he had feelings for me. A lot of people tell me he hasn’t had many real girlfriends and he doesn’t like dealing with feelings. So he asked me what I meant by like? Or feelings about what? I tried to get an answer from him, but he would never answer the question. I’m wondering if he does like me, just being difficult and doesn’t want to tell me. I’m not going to get upset if he doesn’t like me, I just want an answer. What should I do?

Category: Tags: asked October 26, 2013

2 Answers

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It sounds to me like he isn't quite sure of what he wants yet. The fact that wanted sex says he's attracted to you, but the fact that he didn't move on to try and find another girl when you said no says that it's not all about the sex to him. If he hasn't had very many girlfriends it's possible that he just doesn't have much experience in relationships and is nervous and/or shy. If you genuinely like him, maybe try asking him on a date. Some men like a girl with that confidence to make the first move. Anything is possible.
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Sounds to me like he is trying to have sex.. but tha fact that you've been talking for months and he didnt just split right when it seemed like you weren't going seems like he may have some legitimate care for you.