Several years ago a friend tried to get me to talk to this guy, who I knew as a child, who she thought I would have a lot in common with. I ignored the idea….too scared, not ready, and to be honest, I had a crush on someone else (who didn’t know I existed…….got over him).
2 years ago I emailed this guy on facebook. Introduced myself and told him how my friend thought we should get to know one another. I know he remembers me. I said in the email, if he was interested we should email (get to know one another, u know?) and that if he wasn’t interested to ignore my email, that I wouldn’t take it personal (yea right!). Anyhow, that night he sends me a friend request. I accept and think how great, he must be interested. But then of course my low self esteem kicks in and thinks he only sends a request because he wants to see my profile page (pictures and so forth). Although, he sent a request, he never emailed. I thought that was what I implied, but who knows how he read it. I never sent another email. 2 years passed and we still havent emailed, we’re still friends, and judging by his profile, we do have a lot in common. Do you think he was waiting for me to send the email first, because this whole time I’ve been waiting for his permission (I am a reserved person by nature). Should I move on or should I go for it and send him an email? HELP!
