The really important thing is to detach the idea that being stoic is productive or necessary, but also to detach it from what is considered a 'dominant male', even in joking. We take sexuality very seriously and the idea that anything can 'increase our odds' of having sex/procreating, we're likely to do it.It's a terrible and stupid concept though and all it does is create men who cannot communicate and women who recoil from men who do communicate (in observation of the general population, this does not apply to everyone.) It'll take time to get past, but we'll get there.