What do you do to stop feeling unwanted?

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I always think of myself as not very attractive or that no one wants me “in that way”. I just want to have the feeling of being wanted by someone. I’m sorry if this iritates anyone.

Tags: asked June 29, 2014

8 Answers

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Find your passion and your talent. Be excellent in something you truly love. Don't be too hard on yourself and try to like yourself more :)
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Everyday I look in the mirror and tell myself something I like about myself that day, I try and make it different each day... It can be anything from "My eyes look like a nice blue today" to "I look pretty today"You have to remember that somewhere in the world someone will find you beautiful, but you can't please everyone.My favourite saying of all time is "You could be the juiciest, most ripe, most beautiful lemon of all time... But there will always be someone who hates lemons."You are beautiful :)
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Thank you everyone for the help :3
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Write down a list of what you consider your "positive qualities". Do you like to cook? Are you an optimistic person? Remind yourself what a cool person you have and what you have to offer the world. Work on building new friendships and relationships. I promise that someone is looking for someone just like you. Attitude is alot in this world, if you believe in yourself, others will be more likely to want to get to know you and take that "next step". :) Good luck!
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If you think of your self as not attractive try something I've heard other people do, and im trying myself, look at your self in the mirror and find something you like about your self. I've heard a lot of people say there eyes so,possibly you like your eyes, then just find a way to "show them off" and think of yourself as good looking because of them. Also I get the feeling of wanting to feel wanted in that way, I know that feeling, just try to stay confident and people will see that you're confident about your self and possibly, like you more, but if your always depressed or don't like your self then people will see it as a bad time to approach you and well yeah... but I bet in the future if you keep your head up, there a great things that lye ahead. Good luck and I hope you can try to appreciate yourself some more. Stay confident in yourself.
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You shouldn't see yourself as unwanted or unattractive. Every person has that that part of their body their just like 'eww wtf..' that's totally normal. You should try to appreciate yourself who you are and what you have become. Being unwanted..uh thats an terrible feeling..but you should talk, message, or just call someone you can lean towards and just talk too. Talking about wanting attention. Not as an attention that is like you know dramaitc or so. But an attention that every person deserves. There will be someone near by to give you attention or even just a hug. If you need to talk about other things feel free mto message me c:
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You shouldn't feel unwanted. Find something you like about your self and kinda show it off. Everyone has something...if is not there looks then something in your personality. Like im funny and i try to bring that out when im feeling down or a person is mad at me or just to see there smile. Thats all i care about seen there smile and knowing i made it. I hope i helped you
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You should create a tally chart saying "Who thinks (your name) is pretty