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I am pissed at how almost everyone around me treats me as if I do not have any right to feel angry at them when they are being assholes. This is my situation for the past years. Whenever I try to speak and stand up for myself they will all lay down my guilt cards, and it will all be.. “No, you can’t tell us that we are wrong, because you are this, and you have done that, and you deserve to be treated badly and not complain at all.” Seriously, my tolerance cup is already about to get filled up. But I guess I have to keep it all feom pouring, I yet have to learn how to let go most of the time, distract myself, and learned how to ignore all Life’s BS, I realized nothng will ever change, Life is never fair. It’s worse when from most of those struggles, it is my family who gives me most of those rejection. :(

asked December 4, 2014

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Don't wait until your cup is running over, empty the cup when it's half full. If there's something bothering you, just sit down with the person that it's about and talk with them about it. Say what's on your mind and why it bothers you. Everyone can get angry and it always happens for a reason. Don't let others tell you that you don't have the right to feel a certain way. Just explain calmly why you feel angry. I'm sorry to hear that your family rejects you.
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Wished it was that easy, believe me when I say I did try to raise my voice. But more often, they would never hear me out, and they will always make it appear that I am always wrong and a bad person for speaking up for myself. I usually end up fighting/arguing with them if I try. I am not sure how approaching people about this would happen. It would always end up with me being a loser.