Too weird?

So basically it’s been decided that people don’t like me because I’m too weird. My best friend and I agreed on this, no he’s not some horrible friend that puts me down. After I said it he kinda tried to change, he said that I should think of it more as “People like me because I’m different.” Instead of people not liking me cuz I’m different. But, I know he’s the only person who even likes me as a friend. I’m a 15 year old girl who constantly hangs out with guys…only guys. I hate wearing any makeup or flattering clothes. I hate shopping of any kind. I have family issues and will (hopefully) be seeing a therapist sometime soon. When I fall for a guy I fall for him HARD. I’m a very random, estatic, crazy girl in school who’s not afraid to do anything (from randomly conducting experiments by sucking on peoples fingers to dressing like a guy) as long as I’m in school. At home I am very stoic with my family and I’m actually very sensitive and suicidal. Basically all this adds up to a really weird teen girl…am I really so weird that guys just don’t like me? Should I stop being so….me?

asked September 15, 2013

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Quinn

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My friends didn't believe me when I told them that sucking on someones fingers was a way to turn them on, basically I HAD to.

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Quinn

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I say let your freak-flag fly. Yes, you might be a bit...unique. But if you are happy being you, let the haters hate. You will never be able to please everyone, so only try to please yourself. Don't do something just because your gender "should." You are the only person who is YOU and that is awesome.

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You don't sound that weird "except for the finger thing... wtf?"...Look my advice is be who you are... and others will be who they are... but don't try and incorporate them into your personality "by sucking on their fingers" and they won't try and make you fit theirs... Being yourself is fine... I have a kooky friend who s a guy and so am I. He is overly sexual.. it is his thing... it is funny... to me... but I invited him to one of my parties last week with my other friends he doesn't know... and he embarrassed me beyond belief... I'm still his friend... but that was wrong to gross out other people with his joke style... learn your boundaries... We don't have one personality.. we are multi faceted... our personalities are comprised of different parts and you should learn what parts you should show to which people. For example, I am a staunch atheist, but I have christian friends because I have other parts of my personality to offer and so do they.This is just advice that being someone people are ok with and enjoy the company of does not mean giving up yourself, it means finding boundaries and learning to accept that other people might view something you do as uncomfortable. As you mature, you will learn to understand where people's boundaries are.

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Nathan

dont think your weird, i think you have a tendancy to do what other people find weird.....and remember, its only weird the first time.

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Robin

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Be who you are, don't let others bring you down. Do what you want, doesn't even matter. I understand the stoicness with family, it's hard to be who you are when you know they will judge you more than others.

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