Too fast?

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How can I told my girlfriend that she is too fast in our relationship?we just declare our relationship last week and still in pogress to know each other (before this we are friends) but I think she is too fast like start to control my life, always talk about feelings, try to know what I like and not, too much talking about our relationship. I can see we are different from before and I miss her when she be my friends that I can share anything I want without think about our feelings. Clearly I’m not ready to be in love but is hard for me to tell the truth because she always want we try it’s first and see what will happen after that. What can I told her that she is too fast in our relationship and I’m not comfortable when she acting like this?? I miss her as my best friends and in the same time Idk if this is love or just “like” for me. I’m so confused with this relationship and my feelings right now.

Category: asked April 17, 2013

3 Answers

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Tell her that it is moving too fast for you. If the best thing you guys had before you started dating was your ability to talk about things, than don't be afraid to talk to her about this. It is your relationship too. Just tell her it is moving too fast and you need things to slow down. There is no need to rush, and you need to say something so you feel comfortable in the relationship too.
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The best thing is to just tell it to her. If she really loves you, she would easily understand and accept it. :)
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A good relationship can have several dimensions. You can be like brother-sister in being comfortable with each other's company, best friends in sharing all your thoughts, partner in dealing with all life's twists and turns and a lover in giving all the care, love and affection when you need it most. Relationships can be quite difficult to understand at first. Its just a matter of being patient in knowing each other's views and respecting and accepting it. A good relationship is a gradual process...it has a lot of steps. You need to work hard for you to fulfill these small steps in order for you to achieve a good and strong foundation. Its all about trust and respect. I hope you have a great, happy and life long relationship. She is very lucky to have you.