Tis the season

You know, love seems so crucial for all of us. We all seem to want to be accepted and loved by someone else. But the thing is, you need to love yourself first. This season can be depressing I suppose but you need to understand that in order for others to love you, you need to love yourself first. Just try to see the good in yourself and be at least a little happy about how strong and independent you are. Make new friends and try your best to not let all this affect you. At the end of the day, I dont think any other quality is gonna get you as far in life as apathy and self love can. (If that makes sense) I'm trying to do what I've just advised you to do. Lets see how things go.

There are different aspects of life that a person might find much more important than others; one of these aspects is love or just simply building romantic relationships. These might be of great importance since you may find a sense of security, satisfaction, joy. Some people most often want someone who will be there no matter what, they want that someone to be their exclusive lover, have frequent and enjoyable conversations with them, have the time to spend being with them and just doing activities they would both enjoy. They want for someone to care for them, compliment them, to be dedicated to them, to give helpful comfort during stressful or diffcult times. People often say that they are in a relationship or want to be in one just not to feel lonely and sad or simply just for company. Most hide that they want the whole package: to be satisfied emotionally, socially, physically, mentally. Also, not having a relationship as of now does not mean that you are lacking physically; it also does not imply that you do not have a good sense of humor that most people find enjoyable. It just so happens that you aren't in a relationship as of now. Try to assess your social life; are you actively "putting yourself out there"? Do you go out much? Do you get to meet people often and have chats with them? How's your status quo, what do people think of you? These are all question that when are satisfied may give you a higher chance of finding someone who would want to create a romantic relationship with you. Also, I am not saying that being sad because you aren't in a relationship is bad. For most people it's normal to feel that way, after all, we all want someone whom we could always reach out to. But, don't think so much of it. Try to focus on some other aspects of your life, work or maybe school, family and some other interests... It'll keep your mind off the whole not being in a relationship.If you want someone to chat to or just exchange daily greetings with, you can message me and I'll try my best to reply :) I wish you the best^_^/