Let go of the word "slut".
"Slut" is to women what "nigger" is to blacks. That word only exists, only functions to disparage and to shame women who have a lot of sex, as though a woman having a healthy sex drive is somehow wrong, when men are openly encouraged to get all they can, women are expected to stay "pure". A woman's sexual standing has been the source of generations of woman-hating and bigoted misogyny.
There is nothing wrong with you for enjoying sex. Your worth is not tied to your sexual status. If you enjoy something, go out and find it as long as you are safe. Go out and have sex, make out with guys, girls, whomever excites you, but do it all safely. There is such a thing as safe AND fun sex.
If you want tips on how to spot guys or girls to make out with, generally speaking, people are more or less open to the option of spending some fun time sucking face. A dance floor is the perfect place to snatch a snog, and you can always retreat to a booth for some closer attention.
Never be afraid to live your life. You deserve the same chance at pursuing your happiness as anyone else. Never let anyone or anything stifle your will to live happily. Never let anyone tell you that because you have a healthy sex drive that you are somehow "dirty", "impure", or "sick". Most importantly, never forget that you matter, and you are not alone.
