This girl…what do I do?

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So I’ve crushing on this girl so bad. I met her in one of my classes this semester but sadly that class is over because it was a quarterly class. Anyways, when we first met, we just clicked. I didn’t really realize that I liked her yet at this point. As the weeks went by, I got to know her better and she’s….perfect. Oh, and I’m a girl. And my family is Christian(religion DOES correlate with sexuality–in terms of it not agreeing with certain beliefs) and my culture typically doesn’t have any homosexuals and all that good stuff. So basically, I live in a homophobic mini-society. No one knows that I like girls. And let me tell you, I’ve liked girls ever since I was younger. It’s just been a feeling I’ve always had but never expressed it because I was always told that that kind of stuff is bad. And because of that, I’ve reached to the point where…I just wanna get out, and tell her that I like her. But she’s graduating college after this semester (I’m a sophomore in college), and I feel like it wouldn’t even be worth telling her. I don’t even think she’s into girls either. What do I do? I have this feeling that I should confess but a part of me says no. But I’ve always told myself to keep my feelings to myself but I don’t want to anymore.

Category: asked November 2, 2013

5 Answers

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I have always been a true believer in people like you expressing themselves and being accepted. I think you should tell her how you feel. Yes, it is possible that she may not like girls. Yes, it is possible that she could not like you "like that". but What is the point of being alive if you are not going to live your life the way you want to? Stop keeping to yourself and show yourself to the world. This could be the moment you have been living for.
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If you feel like you should tell her your feelings. Do it. It doesn't matter if she's not into girls. You should definitely do it, since she's graduating college soon. I really think that you should confess; because you might not have a chance to do so, and you will regret it. Trust me. Think about it-what worse can happen other than being rejected by your crush?
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a gay friend of mine said to me once "If you played for our team i'd let you take care of me for the rest of my life". We're still friends and I'm still flattered by that notion.
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You should tell her how you feel. Its better to know that you tried than to live with the doubt and not know if this girl could have made you happy.
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Hearts are left broken with words left unspoken. Our fear of loving and not being loved in return is what stops us in finding true love. So I believe that you should tell her, and if she doesn't reciprocate those feelings, then you will feel a lot better knowing that your burden is off your chest. Cheers!