Third wheel of my own relationship

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it feels like my fiance defends his own friend more than me. For example i had a baby and he seems to like my husband more than me then i called him home coz our baby would stop crying. When he gets home he completely blows up at me and telling me that i’m trying to ruin his friendship. That is just one of the examples of what happened anyways. just at the end of this year i told him how i felt and he “apparently doesn’t even remember those things happening. Has anyone ever had this happen to them and how did you handle it.

Category: asked January 15, 2014

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Okay, this exact problem happened to me when I was engaged with the father of my child. In all honest, the relationship didn't work out in the end. He would never defend me when it came to his friends. Especially his best friend. He spent way more time with him than me and always took his friends side. He would talk to him about anything and talk to him all the time but he couldn't even have a simple conversation with me. His best friend was also a douche bag toward me.All I can say, is try to stand your ground the best you can, causing the least amount of drama and tension as possible. Don't let anyone push you around and be sure to make it known that you come first in a relationship.. You truly deserve the best. I hope this helps a little. <3