I have a friend at school who has a boyfriend. BTW Im a 17 year old girl too, and I have had this mega crush on her for the past 6 months or so. I spent oodles of time with her, but I know we can never really be together in ‘that’ way because she’s straight. She doesn’t know that I’m lesbo, but either way she’s In love with her boyfriend and I certainly don’t want to break that up. How am I supposed to deal with this and get over it?