Learn to surround yourself with positive people & let them bring positive vibes into your life. If someone brings negativity to your life, you don't need them. They don't need to be at the table if they bring nothing to it. I know being positive & surrounding yourself by such people can be difficult sometimes but if you are looking for the right words to say, you must find the right people. You can't do everything alone. Given you find the words you'd like to say, I am always here to help or just listen.
xoxo.