Stupid Boyfriend Cheated

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I have been with my boyfriend for three years and I thought we were close as ever. II just found out that six months ago he made a secret online account and started sexting with at least 20 girls and on top of that he was secretly talking with his ex girlfriend after he has promised numerous times that he would not do so. I was furious and disgusted so I broke up with him. He made a good point in saying at that moment we were talking about marriage and he got scared. He cried and begged and now I decided to give him another chance after he has sworn back and forth that he will change. I made him tell both his ex girlfriend and his mother of the situation and his feelings which he did in a heartbeat. However, I am still absolutely disgusted with the situation. Do I leave him for good? I could never imagine leaving him before, he was my knight and shining armor….but now I don’t even enjoy kissing him. Maybe that will pass as I get over it though.

Category: Tags: asked April 24, 2013

2 Answers

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Your choice, your choice, your choice! You are smart enough to know what you want & you deserve to be happy. If you want to stay and make it work, chances are he won't do it again since he fessed up to his own mother. That was a plus. If you want to break things off, he will face the consequences of his mistakes.
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you did not state your age but i get the impression you both are on the young side. 3years is a long time, however the rest of your lives is a lot longer.Do you see yourself with this guy in ten, twenty, or even in five years from now? I won't tell you what you should or should not do, I believe you already know. Someone once said " advice is what you ask for when you already know the answer, but just need to hear it from somebody else." Sounds to me your both ready to move on . There is happiness out there for everyone, if I were in your shoes, I'd go find it. Best of luck to you,