Stuck in between the two…

She obviously loves you regardless, tell her how you're feeling, I'm sure she'll tell you she wants you, give her the option to leave, if she wants to she'll take it, but then you'll know she feels no obligation to have to stay with you. I've had this kind of discussion with my boyfriend, he felt the same, gave me the choice to leave because he wasn't good enough, I told him he was being stupid and I love him regardless, chances are this'll happen to you too. Give her a chance to show you how much she wants to be with you, then give her the chance to leave if she must, that way you both know you both want the best for one another and nobody is hurt :)

You cant live your life unhappy with someone. It's not good for your health. Personally I think that if you really love someone you will go to the end of the world just to make it work out between you two. If you are really in love and you truly want this to happen you will keep trying and keep trying. And if it's not going anywhere after trying so hard I think it might be time for you both to go separate ways. But at least try to fix your situations. If you were never happy in the first place and you're not actually in love with her I think it would be best to let her go and let her grow into a person and learn from this experience instead of getting hurt. It may be hard for her at first but if you're truly not happy with her you can either fix it and be happy or leave and be happy. Just follow your heart and choose whatever you feel is right. And never feel guilty for your decision because you know what's good for you both. xx

She obviously loves you regardless, tell her how you're feeling, I'm sure she'll tell you she wants you, give her the option to leave, if she wants to she'll take it, but then you'll know she feels no obligation to have to stay with you. I've had this kind of discussion with my boyfriend, he felt the same, gave me the choice to leave because he wasn't good enough, I told him he was being stupid and I love him regardless, chances are this'll happen to you too. Give her a chance to show you how much she wants to be with you, then give her the chance to leave if she must, that way you both know you both want the best for one another and nobody is hurt :)

let het make her own decisions....dont do her thinking for her.

It's pretty simple really, if you don't love her, let her go. Doesn't mean you can't be there for her as a friend when she needs you, but you said she has a lot of people in her life so I'm sure she'd be alright.